Although there may be times when another individual’s conduct warrants reproof, before speaking one should question whether he is fit to be the one to administer it.
Furthermore, if reproof must be given, it should be offered gently, which will obviously enable it to be accepted more readily than harsh speech.
Moreover, such words should be spoken only on select occasions.
(Excerpted from the Sichah of Vayakhel 5752, courtesy of Sichos in English)
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