The Mishnah in Ethics of Our Fathers (4:21) states: “Jealousy, greed and honor drive a person from this world.” Most of the conflict in our relationships can be broken down to one of these sources. This section will explore various triggers of conflict, including jealousy, resentment, and ego.
Chapter 32 of Tanya teaches us that on a soul level, no conflicts exist between people. We share one source, one soul root. It’s only when we come down to the world to occupy separate bodies that conflict arises. When our primary focus is on our physical body, we are in a constant state of friction with people around us. But when we focus on the soul within, we naturally are able to live in peace and harmony with others.
Many conflicts are caused by simple misunderstandings and can be resolved by letting go of ego and giving the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes, though, people do hurt us deliberately and try to take advantage of us. This section will also explore self-protection, healing and forgiveness.
The final chapter in this section discusses how to go beyond merely “getting along” and build deep, lasting, and enriching relationships. It will also explore some of the conflicts and pitfalls that helpers can face: Boundary issues, co-dependency, burnout and compassion fatigue.